People's Misbehaviour is unpredictable. Is there anyone out there who can guarantee us that our
parent scold us because they enjoy scolding everyone or is there any parent who
accepts that he/she doesn’t love his/her child and hence they scold them always?
We all know deep inside our heart that what our parents do is for our good and
every parent also is clear about one thing in mind that he/she wants to see a
great future personality in their child. And they think that scolding will help
them overcome their mistakes/problems. But once again we are trying to use the
energy of negativity to create something positive.
Let’s for now leave the topic of parents. Let us think about
any person. Why do people misbehave to anyone? Be it their own dear and near
ones or be it with any person who has any kind of involvement in their life. We
may have seen a lot of people around us who gets angry too quickly for no
reason. But we never tried to sort out why the person does this always? We say
that it’s there ego/attitude that has made them like that but in reality they
are too disturbed inside. We love people who have got a nice personality and a
nice behaviour but in originality the people who are always angry or disturbed
are the people who are in need of love. They behave in that manner because
unknowingly they want attention from everyone. As they don’t get loved they
find it a good way to make people realise their importance.
Keeping our mind stable and instead of arguing, trying to
love the person who made us angry is something that will need practice but
whatever be it, we can’t deny the truth. Take a simple case of an alcoholic
person, whatever he says we don’t mind him because we know he is out of his
mind. Similarly look at every misbehaving person as an alcoholic person. Here
the difference is only about the type of alcohol. There it was ethanol (ethyl +
alcohol) and here is it depressanol (depression + alcohol). Just try for once
today. Instead of getting into argument stay calm at that moment and when the
person is back to normal love them as much as they deserve, I’m sure
relationships will get better because I have personally tried it . Good thing
comes only to those who deserve it.
I wish from now everyone will look at poeple's misbehaviour with a different eye. PEACE.
I wish from now everyone will look at poeple's misbehaviour with a different eye. PEACE.
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